Today’s topic is a bit lighter than many of the previous posts.

One trend that I have noticed is the odd follow on expression when someone says, “Thank you”.  In almost every interview in the media today when the host says “Thank you for coming on the air” or a similar expression, the guest will almost always respond with, “Thank you”.

When did this trend in speech start?  My mother, father, and school teachers taught that the proper response to “Thank you” is “You’re welcome”.    Responding with “You’re welcome” indicates that the “thank-ee” was pleased to have provided something to the “thank-er”.  “You’re welcome” also implies that there is nothing owed in return.

The response of “Thank you” is ambiguous as to its meaning.  There is no indication if the “thank-ee” was glad to have given what was provided.  It is also ambiguous whether or not there are strings attached to what was given.

I have to admit I find the current response odd as well as nonsensical,  but at least it’s not as annoying as “upspeak” and “vocal fry” which have become fashionable speech patterns, especially among young females in The United States.  I may cover those stupid and annoying speech patterns in a future post.

I was pleasantly surprised last week when I placed an order at the drive-up speaker of a fast food restaurant.  The young man named Gustavo who took my order, cheerfully responded  when I said, “Thank you” with, “You are very welcome”.